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Friends

They May Be Just Acquaintances. They’re Important to You Anyway.

August 18, 2023 by Jack Taylor

Bryan Anselm for The New York Times

Victoria Tirondola and Lam Gong first struck up a conversation last spring at the dog run in Brookdale Park in Bloomfield, N.J., when they realized that each owned a dog named Abby. Ms. Tirondola, 65, an insurance sales representative who lives in nearby Cedar Grove, has a tiny bichon-poodle mix. Mr. Gong’s Abby, older and portlier, is a terrier-beagle.

They chatted about dogs at first. Then they learned that they both cooked, so “we talked about food and restaurants,” said Mr. Gong, 67, a retiree living in Clifton.

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Filed Under: New Old Age Tagged With: Friends, relationships, Well-being

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